Okay, so I have not updated much, life, as usual, has been busy.
I have continued to walk every weekday (minus this past Tuesday which was pouring rain, I really need to get a rain coat and an extra pair of shoes so that I can do that), and have gotten in at least 2 miles a day (sometimes as many as 4 miles!). And let me tell you, there are days that I had to drag myself to the pond against great internal opposition (when I feel sad, I don't like to do anything, and I have had a couple of days that I felt exceptionally emotionally heavy this week). BUT I made myself go, made myself honor the decision and commitment I made to myself to walk at least 2 miles every day--even if it a plodding, unhappy two miles!! And you know, walking helps me feel better most of the time. Out of the 13 days since I started walking (when School started 2 weeks ago), I have had only one weekday that I did not walk, and only one drag-myself-there-and-make-myself-honor-my-commitment-to-myself day that walking did not make me feel markedly better (it did make me feel somewhat better, but sometimes that nagging dark cloud still hands around even when you have walked and gotten your blood flowing). So I am proud of myself that I have been true to my decision, to stand firm in my decision to walk each day.
As for food tracking, I did well, and then I piddled out some. I will continue to try to make it a daily habit. It is more time consuming, and this week, I have been using most of my library hours actually writing articles for pay (which I should be doing right now as I have three assignments that need to be done by tomorrow!), and so have not taken the time to fill out my spark people food tracker or even the exercise tracker. That I will do today, and will write my articles tonight after the kids are in bed. I definitely eat more consciously when tracking food than I do when I have not tracked it in a couple of days. Conscious eating is important.
This week has been busy. Monday after school the boys and I picked up chicken feed and took it to my chickens over at my father's house (they were slated to move to my house as soon as the coop is done, which I had planned for this weekend). However when we went to the coop, a horrible sight met us. A predator or predators had gotten into the coop and killed almost all of the chickens (we have had a little trouble with predators (weasels, chicken hawks, dogs, etc...) through the spring and summer, but each time it was only 1 or 2 chickens and we were able to find where the problem was and take action. But no, this time the predator(s) (we suspect bobcats for a variety of reasons) took out BOTH roosters, four of my big hens, and 16 of the young pullets and cockerels (2-3 month old chickens that hatched this spring). That left one one little pullet and two of the older hens, all quite traumatized. So Monday evening saw me building a secure makeshift chicken pen at my house and moving the chickens there, and I will definitely be completing the secure, permanent coop this weekend.
So finally, last by not least, I have not had a lot of success in making the scale go down, even with better eating and walking. So in talking to a variety of people, I decided I do need to do something to maybe kick-start the weight loss process. I am not into fad diets and such, I have tried a number of them over the years, but without a permanent change in lifestyle. now that I am making a permanent change in lifestyle though, I am feel discouraged that in nearly 3 weeks, the scale has barely moved. For a person with so much excess weight, I should be losing easily to begin with. It is probably an issue related to insulin production, metabolic process, emotional stress (which makes you hold on to weight), and other factors. One of my sisters said that she and her husband had a wonderful experience with the 17 Day Diet. It was very cleansing and after the first 5 days, she felt a million times better,and lost that last 5 pounds that had been nagging her, and her husband lost over 25 pounds. So, as this buffalo of my weight seems to be just content and grazing slowly around the prairie, I have decided to give it a try. I borrowed the book The 17 Day Diet from the library and as of today, have started on the first leg of the journey. Hopefully if I can kickstart this buffalo, it will stampede away the blocks that have been limiting my ability to get the scale to come down, and then the healthy changes i am making will have a better chance to take hold. So, yup trying a short diet to get the ball rolling. I'll let you know how it goes...
Friday, September 21, 2012
Thursday, September 13, 2012
walking...
Walking daily has been a large success. I have been able to walk over 3 miles each day this week. I am not a fast walker, which has a lot to do with the discomfort my legs, knees, feet are feeling as I get back into a regular pattern of movement. I would like to figure out something to do in addition that actually gets my heart and lungs being challenged, as the physical pain at this point does not allow me to push my cardiovascular system to a more challenging level. I know that any walking is good for increasing health, and does stimulate the cardio-pulmonary system, but I would like to raise my heart-rate a bit more than I am able to. So I think I am going to try to add in something more strenuous that does not overstress my feet and knees. I had not realized how weak my legs have been over the past year or so. But that is another step forward in the changes I am making, and another great goal, another thing to rejoice in as my legs get stronger and more able to increase speed in my walking.
I also realized that my readership dropped off dramatically as I got more depressed over this past year. They say (yes the undefined "they") that when you are radiating love and light, truth and peace, wisdom and connection that people will be drawn to you, as those are high energies, building energies...and the opposite is also true that if you radiate pain and sadness, sorrow and worry, anger and division that people will fall away. I see a dramatic drop in page views from over 1500 page views a month in February (the months before that) to around 400 page-views a month now in a steep downward shift month by month since March. So to those who have continued to follow this blog, thank you for staying with me as I have gone through a difficult period, trying to find the path to transformation as life shifted in ways I did not expect. And for those who are new readers, welcome, and thank you for joining on this journey towards a better life, a better sense of self, and healthier relationship with God, self, family, friends, strangers, and the global we, as well as better connection with the Powerful Consciousness that is the Divine Energy, with Mother Earth, with humanity, nature, and the cosmos.
I also realized that my readership dropped off dramatically as I got more depressed over this past year. They say (yes the undefined "they") that when you are radiating love and light, truth and peace, wisdom and connection that people will be drawn to you, as those are high energies, building energies...and the opposite is also true that if you radiate pain and sadness, sorrow and worry, anger and division that people will fall away. I see a dramatic drop in page views from over 1500 page views a month in February (the months before that) to around 400 page-views a month now in a steep downward shift month by month since March. So to those who have continued to follow this blog, thank you for staying with me as I have gone through a difficult period, trying to find the path to transformation as life shifted in ways I did not expect. And for those who are new readers, welcome, and thank you for joining on this journey towards a better life, a better sense of self, and healthier relationship with God, self, family, friends, strangers, and the global we, as well as better connection with the Powerful Consciousness that is the Divine Energy, with Mother Earth, with humanity, nature, and the cosmos.
Monday, September 10, 2012
Note as of September 9, 2012:
Food tracking on this blog format is very difficult. So I have switched from using the page on this blog to doing my food tracking on Spark People. My public page is http://www.sparkpeople.com/mypage.asp?id=TRUTHFREES and there is a link to food and exercise logs both near the top on the right hand side (a button) and at the VERY BOTTOM of the page, lower left hand corner. So If you want to follow my actual food intake and see what I am doing right and what i am doing wrong, as well as my actual exercise tracked each day.
If the link above does not work try going to www.sparkpeople.com and typing truthfrees into the search box. It should bring up a link to "Transformation" or to "Shared Trackers" for truthfrees, which is my spark people ID.
Saturday, September 8, 2012
walking and forming new habits
As I have started driving my son to his school an hour away as of this past Wednesday, I have free time during the day, as I have to stay in the area of his school in case he has a meltdown and needs to be picked up. So I have returned to my old favorite walking track around a beautiful pond. The three days ai have driven him this week I have also gone to the pond and walked at least 2 miles each day. This WILL BE a daily habit, and hopefully as my legs get more used to it, it will be more miles in the same amount of time.
Right now it is painful for my right leg and foot (the left seems fine). But my shoes are older, though I can't afford new ones right now. I got a blister on the bottom of my foot, at the ball of my foot--which is really weird, I have never gotten a blister there before. My heel spur is also acting up on the right foot, and my knee has been stiff and sore--but it is all the process of working out the kinks. It is like when an old car sits for a few week--when you get it fixed and going again, there are some rust spots on things like the brakes and springs, so you have a lot more squeaks and such as everything gets cleaned off from daily use. So I think my body is like that. While I have done some exercise over the past few months, I have not done much sustained walking. So my body is working out the kinks.
What is nice though, is that walking helps release the muscle knots in my legs, as those seem to be the muscles that knot up on me when I am stressed, and I have been stressed often over the past year. This is one of the times that I do miss A, as A used to massage out some of the knots in my calves, which is harder to do yourself. Hopefully walking will help work out all of those kinks and keep them from returning.
As of today I am putting myself on a much better diet. I went to the ophthalmologist yesterday and was there for an hour (longest eye appointment that I have had), and I found out that I have the beginnings of some issues with my eyes (aside from the usual nearsightedness that I have had since I was 9). So it is far past time that I need to pay attention to my physical health and not let all of the other stresses of life bowl over this very important aspect of my life. I am using spark people again to track my food and my exercise, which will hopefully help me have better control over what I eat as it tracks not only calories but also major and some minor nutrient amounts. The exercise tracking will be motivating as it will show not only what I did, it will also show me how I am improving over time. So, getting back to transforming my life from the physical aspect, as well as some other aspects that are just happening due to changes I have already have to make, will hopefully improve my mood, my abilities as a parent, my sense of self, my ability to contribute to the world,and maybe even my interpersonal relationships.
Right now it is painful for my right leg and foot (the left seems fine). But my shoes are older, though I can't afford new ones right now. I got a blister on the bottom of my foot, at the ball of my foot--which is really weird, I have never gotten a blister there before. My heel spur is also acting up on the right foot, and my knee has been stiff and sore--but it is all the process of working out the kinks. It is like when an old car sits for a few week--when you get it fixed and going again, there are some rust spots on things like the brakes and springs, so you have a lot more squeaks and such as everything gets cleaned off from daily use. So I think my body is like that. While I have done some exercise over the past few months, I have not done much sustained walking. So my body is working out the kinks.
What is nice though, is that walking helps release the muscle knots in my legs, as those seem to be the muscles that knot up on me when I am stressed, and I have been stressed often over the past year. This is one of the times that I do miss A, as A used to massage out some of the knots in my calves, which is harder to do yourself. Hopefully walking will help work out all of those kinks and keep them from returning.
As of today I am putting myself on a much better diet. I went to the ophthalmologist yesterday and was there for an hour (longest eye appointment that I have had), and I found out that I have the beginnings of some issues with my eyes (aside from the usual nearsightedness that I have had since I was 9). So it is far past time that I need to pay attention to my physical health and not let all of the other stresses of life bowl over this very important aspect of my life. I am using spark people again to track my food and my exercise, which will hopefully help me have better control over what I eat as it tracks not only calories but also major and some minor nutrient amounts. The exercise tracking will be motivating as it will show not only what I did, it will also show me how I am improving over time. So, getting back to transforming my life from the physical aspect, as well as some other aspects that are just happening due to changes I have already have to make, will hopefully improve my mood, my abilities as a parent, my sense of self, my ability to contribute to the world,and maybe even my interpersonal relationships.
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Summer, changes and Anger
So, this summer has not been very conducive to making regular posts or finding the time to reflect and report. It has been a busy and stressful summer. Coming up next week is the beginning of school for the kids, and a major change in my schedule for an unknown period of time. I plan to use that unknown period of time, which afford me about 4 hours in the middle of the day while both kids are at school, and I am no where near my house (i will write more about that in my family focused blog later this week). So I plan to use that time to continue to write, as that will be necessary for income, AND to really focus on exercise.
I have realized more recently that all of the current stresses, responsibilities, and challenges in my life overwhelm my focus to get physically healthy. This in turn creates many new challenges and does not allow me to clear my mind and my spirit to better handle all of the day to day challenges my life is currently filled with. So it is a horrible cycle. But I have finally created a problem for myself that no excuse I give myself will work for, I want THIS particular problem to be gone--as completely as I can get it out. And that problem is ANGER. I have been a short tempered, grumpy, ferocious person over the past couple of weeks. AND I HATE IT. I have always loved that I was a kind, gentle, forgiving, patient, and uber caring person. And ANGER is bowling me over lately. it confuses me, it affects the way I see the people in my life, it affects the way I react to challenges AND to joys, it makes me into a person that I can barely recognized. I do not like feeling like an angry person. I have often treated anger with food--between the endorphin rush, the serotonin release, and the psychological response to food, normally I could eat myself out of anger (rather than actually deal with such an unpleasant emotion).
That no longer works, and yes I have tried--I have been a bit of an eating machine the past few weeks. other than gaining back about 8 pounds that I had lost earlier, it has done little to eradicate the grumpiness. Though I am fairly good at hiding it, my children have noticed that I am more grumpy than usual, and they have found me less tolerant of crap than I normally am--especially int eh number of toys that have been shelved in the back room. If they treat their belongings in the wrong way (like BITING the gameboy, stuffed animal, or lego blocks or slamming controllers or stuffed animals into the floor (Gonzo's big issues--biting or slamming toys he is mad at)--both of which damage the electronics or tear stuffed animals, and are inappropriate responses to disappointment), the toy is taken and put away for a certain amount of time--from a few hours to a couple of weeks depending on various things. They also have been spending more time than usual cooling off in their rooms when they throw a tantrum over frustration or disappointment, neither of which warrant a fit. Normally I am good at redirecting, using the teaching moment, and helping to bring about an appropriate reaction to the issue at hand--which is a much better solution as it helps the kids learn the appropriate path to dealing with frustration and disappointment--with brain damage, it takes many, many MANY rounds (into the hundreds or repetition) to create new neurological pathways--so it is very important to work on the redirecting and reprocessing gently to nurture the formation of new pathways in how to deal with strong emotions. So, lately I am failing at that, and resorting to separating the kids from what is bothering them and having them just have time to cool off and self sooth (which are good skills to gain too), which is fine, it gives them safe space to return to baseline using the tools that work for them currently--like listening to their music, having some time alone, snuggling with their favorite stuffies, reading/looking at a book, etc.... It just does not help them to build new pathways that help with their long term, executive functioning reactions to strong emotions.
The anger that I have been feeling has colored my reactions to myself, to my friendships, to my basic reactions to the challenges in my life. I have drastically reduced how much I write to friends, as I am not sure how mu writing is coming across, as even when I am not cognizant of my anger, it appears to work its way into some of the way i word things, even if I am not angry or upset at a person, that general sens of grumpiness appears to come through in emails about totally benign topics that I do not feel strongly about.
So, one of my goals during those few hours i will have each day, is to really focus on moving my body--as that is the on thing that I know beyond the shadow of a doubt that releases angry, grumpy feelings in a productive and useful way, and leaves me feeling better. I do not like feeling angry and grumpy all the time. that dislike of anger is more motivational and powerful for me than my weight, my size, general feelings of malaise and depression, frustration about a variety of issues, or anything else. I do not want my children growing up with an angry parent, or even on that is just perpetually grumpy. I do not like the lack of compassion for foolish people that tend to accompany my generalized grumpiness, nor the lack of forgiveness that goes along with lessened compassion. I find that my tolerance for other people and for myself is greatly reduced as my anger increases, and i am more judgemental towards myself and others when there is that grumpiness rolling beneath the surface. It makes me cynical and irritated. Right now I am getting irritated by my own repetition in this post. So I will end there and just say that this angry feeling is becoming a driving force in wanting to get more healthy--particularly eating better and exercising!!
I have realized more recently that all of the current stresses, responsibilities, and challenges in my life overwhelm my focus to get physically healthy. This in turn creates many new challenges and does not allow me to clear my mind and my spirit to better handle all of the day to day challenges my life is currently filled with. So it is a horrible cycle. But I have finally created a problem for myself that no excuse I give myself will work for, I want THIS particular problem to be gone--as completely as I can get it out. And that problem is ANGER. I have been a short tempered, grumpy, ferocious person over the past couple of weeks. AND I HATE IT. I have always loved that I was a kind, gentle, forgiving, patient, and uber caring person. And ANGER is bowling me over lately. it confuses me, it affects the way I see the people in my life, it affects the way I react to challenges AND to joys, it makes me into a person that I can barely recognized. I do not like feeling like an angry person. I have often treated anger with food--between the endorphin rush, the serotonin release, and the psychological response to food, normally I could eat myself out of anger (rather than actually deal with such an unpleasant emotion).
That no longer works, and yes I have tried--I have been a bit of an eating machine the past few weeks. other than gaining back about 8 pounds that I had lost earlier, it has done little to eradicate the grumpiness. Though I am fairly good at hiding it, my children have noticed that I am more grumpy than usual, and they have found me less tolerant of crap than I normally am--especially int eh number of toys that have been shelved in the back room. If they treat their belongings in the wrong way (like BITING the gameboy, stuffed animal, or lego blocks or slamming controllers or stuffed animals into the floor (Gonzo's big issues--biting or slamming toys he is mad at)--both of which damage the electronics or tear stuffed animals, and are inappropriate responses to disappointment), the toy is taken and put away for a certain amount of time--from a few hours to a couple of weeks depending on various things. They also have been spending more time than usual cooling off in their rooms when they throw a tantrum over frustration or disappointment, neither of which warrant a fit. Normally I am good at redirecting, using the teaching moment, and helping to bring about an appropriate reaction to the issue at hand--which is a much better solution as it helps the kids learn the appropriate path to dealing with frustration and disappointment--with brain damage, it takes many, many MANY rounds (into the hundreds or repetition) to create new neurological pathways--so it is very important to work on the redirecting and reprocessing gently to nurture the formation of new pathways in how to deal with strong emotions. So, lately I am failing at that, and resorting to separating the kids from what is bothering them and having them just have time to cool off and self sooth (which are good skills to gain too), which is fine, it gives them safe space to return to baseline using the tools that work for them currently--like listening to their music, having some time alone, snuggling with their favorite stuffies, reading/looking at a book, etc.... It just does not help them to build new pathways that help with their long term, executive functioning reactions to strong emotions.
The anger that I have been feeling has colored my reactions to myself, to my friendships, to my basic reactions to the challenges in my life. I have drastically reduced how much I write to friends, as I am not sure how mu writing is coming across, as even when I am not cognizant of my anger, it appears to work its way into some of the way i word things, even if I am not angry or upset at a person, that general sens of grumpiness appears to come through in emails about totally benign topics that I do not feel strongly about.
So, one of my goals during those few hours i will have each day, is to really focus on moving my body--as that is the on thing that I know beyond the shadow of a doubt that releases angry, grumpy feelings in a productive and useful way, and leaves me feeling better. I do not like feeling angry and grumpy all the time. that dislike of anger is more motivational and powerful for me than my weight, my size, general feelings of malaise and depression, frustration about a variety of issues, or anything else. I do not want my children growing up with an angry parent, or even on that is just perpetually grumpy. I do not like the lack of compassion for foolish people that tend to accompany my generalized grumpiness, nor the lack of forgiveness that goes along with lessened compassion. I find that my tolerance for other people and for myself is greatly reduced as my anger increases, and i am more judgemental towards myself and others when there is that grumpiness rolling beneath the surface. It makes me cynical and irritated. Right now I am getting irritated by my own repetition in this post. So I will end there and just say that this angry feeling is becoming a driving force in wanting to get more healthy--particularly eating better and exercising!!
Monday, August 20, 2012
Chugging along...
Sorry I have been so scant in my posts lately, life has been busy--between babysitting for three different families, working on the house, spending some quality time with my kids, doing so freelance writing, and trying to prepare for upcoming changes, life has been very full.
So upcoming transitions include all of the changes that the start of the school year brings.
Josiah's current plan is to attend the k-12 school that is part of the center where he did his special needs preschool and does his aquatic PT each week. I think this will be a good fit and will be a good transition. It does mean that I have to drive him, at least for the first couple months as his behavior plan calls for me to be able to pick him up within 15 minutes if he has a melt down that they can not turn around. So I need to be nearby, and as home is over an hour from the school, the only way to do that is to drive him down and resume my former routine (which is a great thing) and drive him home. This results in not being able to open the day care at this time, and needing to ramp up my writing and finding more assignments for writing so that I can retain an uber flexible schedule.
I have been preparing my mind for Gonzo's transition to a totally new school program, totally new teachers, routine, setting, everything. That is a different ball of wax, that I will probably go into on the family blog at some point later this week.
Other stuff has been trying to implement the three habits that I am trying to form based on this post here.
1) No eating after 9:30pm--just herbal tea, or water.
2) Exercise--focused exercise--at least 45 minutes a day, EVERY day
3) In bed by midnight, strive for a minimum of 6 hours of sleep each day.
While there are days that I do well with them, I still am struggling to really make them a daily habit, ingrained in my mind as "normal" functioning. Part of it is the stress that is overtaking my life--between car issues (my car has been out of commission since late July), financial issues (not making enough to meet basic required bills and expenses), and the emotional roller coaster that has been surrounding appropriate school placement for the kids (as well as many other things), my brain and body both tend to use whatever means possible to keep stress levels from destroying me, however, mal-adaptive coping skills--like overeating, insomnia, and lack of focus--have made changing my current habits more difficult.I just need to forgive myself for my shortcomings, recognize the reasons for them, throw away the idea of using the stress response as an excuse (without beating myself up for it), and grabbing on to my boot straps to pull myself up and keep moving forward.
The fair starts thsi week, and we are headed there on Thrusday. I look forward to that very much!
So upcoming transitions include all of the changes that the start of the school year brings.
Josiah's current plan is to attend the k-12 school that is part of the center where he did his special needs preschool and does his aquatic PT each week. I think this will be a good fit and will be a good transition. It does mean that I have to drive him, at least for the first couple months as his behavior plan calls for me to be able to pick him up within 15 minutes if he has a melt down that they can not turn around. So I need to be nearby, and as home is over an hour from the school, the only way to do that is to drive him down and resume my former routine (which is a great thing) and drive him home. This results in not being able to open the day care at this time, and needing to ramp up my writing and finding more assignments for writing so that I can retain an uber flexible schedule.
I have been preparing my mind for Gonzo's transition to a totally new school program, totally new teachers, routine, setting, everything. That is a different ball of wax, that I will probably go into on the family blog at some point later this week.
Other stuff has been trying to implement the three habits that I am trying to form based on this post here.
1) No eating after 9:30pm--just herbal tea, or water.
2) Exercise--focused exercise--at least 45 minutes a day, EVERY day
3) In bed by midnight, strive for a minimum of 6 hours of sleep each day.
While there are days that I do well with them, I still am struggling to really make them a daily habit, ingrained in my mind as "normal" functioning. Part of it is the stress that is overtaking my life--between car issues (my car has been out of commission since late July), financial issues (not making enough to meet basic required bills and expenses), and the emotional roller coaster that has been surrounding appropriate school placement for the kids (as well as many other things), my brain and body both tend to use whatever means possible to keep stress levels from destroying me, however, mal-adaptive coping skills--like overeating, insomnia, and lack of focus--have made changing my current habits more difficult.I just need to forgive myself for my shortcomings, recognize the reasons for them, throw away the idea of using the stress response as an excuse (without beating myself up for it), and grabbing on to my boot straps to pull myself up and keep moving forward.
The fair starts thsi week, and we are headed there on Thrusday. I look forward to that very much!
Thursday, August 9, 2012
cocooning and decision..
I know I have not posted in a while. I have been doing a variety of things--Josiah's birthday was yesterday--six years old. I will have to go over to Blessings Beyond Measure and write about it later. If my computer can handle it. the cooling fan has stopped working, so i have a limited amount of time, even with ice packs under the computer, that I can be on the computer before it gets dangerously hot and risks burning out the system. So, being a freelance writer is challenging when I have only short periods I can be on, and the have to take 30-45 minutes to let it cool down before starting again. Articles are taking far longer to do this way. So blogging (and emailing friends) has had to take a back seat as I have been trying to get assignments done. I have also been dealing with many decision making processes in variety of areas, none of which has reached a definite action point yet, which is making me cocoon a bit and withdraw from unnecessary tasks while I focus on these decisions...
Things I have been doing in working towards transforming my life, the topic of this blog...
My three goals mentioned in my previous post have been slow to make into habits, so I am continuing on working on integrating them into my life so that I do not even have to think about them. Then I can add in another layer of transformation.
I have been reading a couple of good books lately, as well as some not worth mentioning (at least they did not speak to me really at this time). I have started re-reading Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living by Pema Chodron. I read it a number of years ago, and in re-reading it I have found my thoughts, ideas, and understanding of life have shifted greatly over the past few years, so it is almost like reading it for the first time. I am enjoying the content and ideals presented. Reminding myself that I can only start from where I am, not where I want to be, in changing the way I interact with myself and with other people. Being reminded that in order to show true compassion to others, I need to show compassion to myself, and from that letting go and moving past mistakes, I can forgive others their mistakes so that both I and they can move past them (if they decide to do so).
I am also reading The Tenth Insight by James Redfield. It has been over 15 years since I first read The Celestine Prophecy, which I enjoyed greatly, but so much time as passed that I have forgotten the nine insights in that book. So reading this sequel is taking some time as I have to draw on old memories. It is good though, as these ideas remind me to see that everything happens for a reason, coincidences are messages to learn and grow from.
I'll mention other books in a later post. I hope you all are well and enjoying the ongoing transformation taking place in your life every day, even in small ways...
Things I have been doing in working towards transforming my life, the topic of this blog...
My three goals mentioned in my previous post have been slow to make into habits, so I am continuing on working on integrating them into my life so that I do not even have to think about them. Then I can add in another layer of transformation.
I have been reading a couple of good books lately, as well as some not worth mentioning (at least they did not speak to me really at this time). I have started re-reading Start Where You Are: A Guide to Compassionate Living by Pema Chodron. I read it a number of years ago, and in re-reading it I have found my thoughts, ideas, and understanding of life have shifted greatly over the past few years, so it is almost like reading it for the first time. I am enjoying the content and ideals presented. Reminding myself that I can only start from where I am, not where I want to be, in changing the way I interact with myself and with other people. Being reminded that in order to show true compassion to others, I need to show compassion to myself, and from that letting go and moving past mistakes, I can forgive others their mistakes so that both I and they can move past them (if they decide to do so).
I am also reading The Tenth Insight by James Redfield. It has been over 15 years since I first read The Celestine Prophecy, which I enjoyed greatly, but so much time as passed that I have forgotten the nine insights in that book. So reading this sequel is taking some time as I have to draw on old memories. It is good though, as these ideas remind me to see that everything happens for a reason, coincidences are messages to learn and grow from.
I'll mention other books in a later post. I hope you all are well and enjoying the ongoing transformation taking place in your life every day, even in small ways...
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